Love, Passion and other Irregularities.
All these can bring significant deviations from the everyday monotony. Hopefully, one will see them as such; fortunate incidents, happy moments rather than accidents.
For the dramatically pessimist, these deviations most probably will be seen as unfortunate events as one will not be able to control and/or schedule successfully one’s life, will easily lead one self to further disappointments by becoming devoted to another (a signiifcant other), thus falling into a loop of pessimism and sadness.
So this is the current state of affairs on this side of the river.