One major distinction often drawn between agape and eros is that agape is self- forgetful while eros is self-interested.
Hubbard, Kyle (2011) “The Unity of Eros and Agape: On Jean-Luc Marion’s Erotic Phenomenon,” Essays in Philosophy: Vol. 12: Iss. 1, Article 9. [Available]
By being continually late, the procrastinator is expressing rebellion at the finality of his or her existence.
McCown, W., Petzel, T., & Rupert, P. (1987). An experimental study of some hypothesized behaviors and personality variables of college student procrastinators. Personality and Individual Differences, 8(6), 781-786.